لهذا السبب لم تنجح l’un des meilleurs discours de motivation

My guest night wrote three The bestselling books he has TED talk about Inspirational Leadership is one of Most viewed every time when talking It is impossible not to listen my name Simon Sinek is a clear vision What I want to build in this world i Imagine a world in it Most people wake up each one Morning inspired to go to work feel safe When I was there and back home even in the end of the day I promise you will our guest help you Acquire behaviors and thought Styles that need to be successful in Everything you try Achievement I have not delivered a speech or you have Meet where someone does not ask me What is the millennial question? The millennial question seems to be Millennial generation as a gil A group of people who were born Around 1984, after is difficult The administration and they were accused of being Entitled and narcissistic Non-focused lazy self-interest however One is entitled Big Wall They confuse leadership often It happens as leaders are demanding Millennium Generation What you want and Millennium generation say we want to work Somewhere with the purpose of love that we You want to have an effect you know whatever This means we want free food and beans Bags and so someone detail, some Kind of purpose there are lots of free Food There are bean bags and so far a way to Cause they still have not been happy and This is because you're missing them This there is a missing piece What I learned is that there I can Break it down to four pieces right There are four four things four Single characteristics and parenting The other is technology The third is impatience and the fourth is The environment is the generation we call The millennium generation is too many of them My words are not a failure of parenthood Strategies you know Where for example they were told that They were special all the time they were They said they had nothing they wanted In life just cuz they want that they were Some of them have reached the honors The classes are not because they deserve it, however Because their fathers complained and Some of them got not because they are He got them but because the teachers Do not want to deal with parents Some kids got the last medals You've got a medal on attendance at another The truth that we know is knowledge It is very clear that it detracts from Metal and reward for Actually work hard and really makes it The person who comes in last to feel Embarrassed because they know they are She does not deserve the actual makes me Feel the worst right to take this group Of people at the Graduate School They get a job and they're heading in Convert them into real world, and in The moment they discover they do not Especially mothers can not get to Promotion that you get something to Coming in the past, by the way you can not Just be so cuz you want it right, and At the moment the whole self-image is Crashed so you have a full Generation that grows up with a drop Self-esteem from previous generations The other problem to aggravate it We're growing up in a facebook Instagram world in other words we're good at putting filters on things we're good at showing people that life is amazing even though I'm depressed right and so everybody sounds tough and everyone sounds like they got it all figure it out and the reality is there's very little toughness and most people do not have it figured out and so when the more senior people say well what we do they sound like this is what you got it and they have no clue so you have an entire generation growing up with lower self-esteem than previous generations right through no fault of their own through no fault of their own right they were dealt a bad hand right now let's add in technology we know that engagement with social media and our cell phones releases a chemical called dopamine that's why when you get a text feet good all right so you know we've all had it when you're feeling a little bit down okay little bit lonely and so you send out ten texts to ten friends you know hi hi hi hi hi cuz it feels good when you get a response right right it's why we count the likes it's why we go back ten times to see if and if it's going if our mints and my Instagram is growing slower I would I do something wrong do they not like me anymore right the trauma for young kids to be unfriended right because we know when you get it you get a hit a dopamine which feels good it's why we like it it's why we keep going back to it dopamine is the exact same chemical that makes us feel good when we smoke when we drink and when we gamble in other words it's highly highly addictive right we have age restrictions on smoking gambling and alcohol and we have no age restrictions on social media and cell phones which is the equivalent of opening up the liquor cabinet and saying to our teenagers hey by the way this addiction thing if it gets you down but that's basically what's happening that's basically what's happening right that's basically what happened you have an entire generation that has access to an addictive numbing to chemical called dopamine through social media and cellphones as they're going through the high stress of addiction why is this important almost every alcoholic discovered alcohol when they were teenagers when we're very very young the only approval we need is the approval of our parents and as we go through awareness we make this transition where we now need the approval of our peers very frustrating for a parent very important for us that allows us to acculturate outside of our immediate families into the broader tribe right it's a highly highly stressful and anxious period of our lives and we're supposed to learn to rarely on our friends some people quite by accident discover alcohol and numbing dopamine to help them cope with the stresses and anxieties of discrimination unfortunately that becomes hardwired in their brains and for the rest of their lives when they suffer significant stress they will not turn to a person they will turn to the bottle social stress financial stress career stress that's pretty much the primary reasons why an alcoholic drinks right what's happening is because we're allowing unfettered access to these dopamine producing devices and media basically it's becoming hardwired and what we're seeing is as they grow older they to many kids do not know how to form deep meaningful relationships their words not mine they will admit that many of their friendships are wonderful they will admit that their friends that they do not count on their friends they do not kindly on their friends they have fun with their friends but they also know that their friends will cancel out them that something better comes along deep meaningful relationships are not there because they never practice the skill set and worse they do not have the coping mechanisms to deal with stress so when significant stress starts to show up in their lives they're not turning to a person they're turning to a device they're turning to social media they're turning to these things which offer temporary relief we know the science is clear we know that people who spend more time on Facebook so far higher rates of depression than people spend less time on Facebook write these things balanced alcohol is not bad too much alcohol is bad gambling is fun too much gambling is dangerous right there's nothing wrong with social media and cell phones it's the imbalance right if you're sitting at dinner with your friends and you're texting somebody who's not there that's a problem that's an addiction if you're sitting in a meeting with people you're supposedly to be listening to and speaking and you put your phone on the table face up or face down I do not care that sends a subconscious message to the room that you're not just you're just not that important to me right now right that's what happens and the fact that you can not put it away is because you are not addicted right if you wake up and you check your phone before you say good morning to your girlfriend boyfriend or spouse you have an addiction and like all addiction in time it'll destroy relationships it'll cost time and it will cost money and will make your life worse right so you have a generation growing up with lower self-esteem that does not have the coping mechanisms to do with stress and stress right now you add in the sense of impatience right they're grown up in a world of instant gratification you want to buy something you go on Amazon it arrives the next day you want to watch a movie log on and watch a movie you do not check movie times you want to watch your TV show binge you do not even have to wait week to week to week right I know people who skip seasons just so they can binge at the end of the season right Instagram if occasion you want to go on a date you do not even have to learn how to be like you do not even have to learn and practice that skill you do not have to be the uncomfortable into which this is yes when you mean knowns as no when you mean no but yes when you have to swipe right bang I'm a stud right you do not have to learn the social coping mechanisms right everything you want you can have instantaneously everything you want instant gratification except job satisfaction and strength of relationships there is not any app for that they are slow meandering uncomfortable messy processes and so I keep meeting these wonderful fantastic idealistic hard-working smart kids they're just graduated school they're in their entry-level job I sit down with them when I go has not go and they go I think I'm gonna quit I'm like why they're like I'm not making an impact I'm like you've been been here eight months it's as if they're standing at the foot of a mountain and they have this abstract concept called impact that they want to have in the world which is the summit but they do not see as the mountain I do not care if you go up the mountain quickly or slowly but there's still a mountain and so what this young generation needs to learn is patience that some things that really really matter like love or job fulfillment joy love of life self-confidence a skill set any of these things all of these things take time sometimes you can expedite pieces of it but the overall journey is arduous and long and difficult and if you do not ask for help and learn that skill set you will fall off the mountain well you will the worst case scenario the worst case scenario and we're already seeing the worst case scenario is we're seeing increase in suicide rates we're seeing an increase in this generation we're seeing increase in accidental deaths due to drug overdoses we're seeing more and more kids drop out of school or take leaves of absence due to depression unheard of these are this is this really bad the best case scenario the bet there's all bad cases right the best case scenario is you'll have an entire population growing up and going through life and just never really finding joy they'll never really find deep deep fulfillment in work or in life they'll just just walk through life and it'll G Just it's fine how's your job it's fine the same as yesterday how's your relationship it's fine like that's that's the best-case scenario which leads me to the fourth point which is environment which is we're taking this amazing group of young fantastic kids would just deal a bad hand it's no fault of their own and we put them in corporate environments that care more about the numbers and they do about the kids they care more about the short-term gains than the long-term life of this young human being we care more about the year than the lifetime right and so we are putting them in corporate environments that are not helping them build their confidence that are not helping them learn the skills of cooperation that are not helping them overcome the challenges of a digital world and finding more balance that is not helping them overcome the need to have instant gratification and teach them the joys and impact in the fulfillment you get from working hard over on something for a long time that can not be done in a month or even in a year and so we're thrusting to them them in corporate environments and the worst part about it is they think it's them they blame themselves they can not them think it's them who can not deal and so it makes it all worse it's not I'm here to tell them it's not them it's the corporation's it's the corporate environments it's the total lack of good leadership in our world today that is making them feel the way they do they were dealt a bad hand heads and I hate to say but it's the company's responsibility sucks to be you like we have no choice right this is what we got and I wish that society and their parents did a better job they did not so we're gonna we're getting them in our companies and we now have to pick up the slack we have to work extra hard to figure out the ways that we build their confidence we have to work extra hard to find ways to teach them social social skills that they're missing out on there should be no cell phones and conference rooms none zero and I do not mean the kind of like sitting outside waiting to text I mean like when you're sitting and waiting for a meeting to start nobody go this is what we all do we all sit here and wait for the meeting to start meaning starting okay we start the meeting no that's not how relationships are formed remember we talked about it to the little things relationships are formed this way we're waiting for a meeting to start we go how's your dad I heard he was in hospital oh he's really good thanks for asking he's actually I hope no I'm really glad it was really amazing I know it was really scary for that's how you form relationships hey did you ever get that report on oh my god no I did not I'll help you I totally uh can I help you out with that really that's how trust forms trust does not form at an event in a day even bad times do not form trust immediately it's the slow steady consistency and we have to create mechanisms where we allow for those little innocent interactions to happen but when we allow cell phones and conference rooms we just okay I had the meeting and then my favorite is like when there's a cell phone there and you go like this you go it rings and go I'm not gonna answer that mr magnanimous you know when you're out for dinner with your friends like II do this with my friends when we're going out for dinner and we're leaving together we'll leave our cell phones at home who are we calling maybe one of us will bring the phone in case we need to call an uber or take a picture of our meal I'm an idealist but I'm not insane I mean it looked really good we'll take one phone and so it's like an alcoholic the reason you take the alcohol out of the house is because we can not trust our willpower we're just not strong enough but when you remove the temptation it actually makes it a lot easier and so when you just say do not check your phone people literally will go like this and somebody would go to the bathroom and what's the first thing we do because I would not want to look around the restaurant for a minute and a half you know but if you do not have the phone you just kind of enjoy the world and that's where ideas happen the constant constant constant engagement is not where you have innovation and ideas ideas happen when our minds wandering we go and you see something on I bet they could do that that's called innovation right but we're taking away all those little moments right you should not end none of us none of us should charge our phones by our beds we should be charging our phones in the living rooms right remove the temptation you wake up the middle of night because you can not sleep you will not check your phone which makes it worse but if it's in the living room it's relaxed it's fine hiya but it's my alarm clock by an alarm clock they cost $ 8 I'll buy you right but the point is the point is as we now in industry whether we like it or not we do not get a choice we now have a The responsibility to make up the shortfall These help are amazingly amazing Gorgeous generation build their capabilities Trust learning patience learn Social skills find a better balance Between life and technology Frankly it's the right thing To do [Music] [Music] You are

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